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20 most popular books on TwoChromosomes (2019 Update) rank no. 6
Women who are not in the mood: What’s the best thing SO can do to improve their chances at changing that?(r/AskWomen)
Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D. It’s the owners manual for female bodies and sexuality.
Covers everything from practical sex info, building healthy relationships, recovering after unhealthy ones, communication, wellness, confidence, self esteem, safety, trauma, and emotional healing. For straight/bi/gay women (and she’s working on expanding for transwomen).