to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful


Am I being unreasonable?
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons “wake up” and want to save their marriages. Yet, they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners’ trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons’ success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those wh…

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Am I being unreasonable?(r/survivinginfidelity)

Dear OP,

You need to step back a bit and take a large deep breath. This rabbit hole goes deeper than you know. I want you to understand that nothing you did, nothing in your relationship, nothing at that has to do with you caused this cheating. This is 100% on him. There are many healthy choices that a person can make when they think that a relationship needs work, none of those includes sex with other people. The reasons for his cheating lie in his mind.

You will need to prepare yourself that there is probably more times they have met up and had sex. They were engaged in an EA and sexting which fuels the dopamine centers in the brain. It was also illicit so the secrecy also added mystery and the allure of the naughtiness of it all also built up the sexual tensions. If he took trips back to his hometown after the EA started, then I can almost bet they met up then. One of the tools that cheaters/waywards use is minimization, they will only admit to what you have found out on your own. They may also pad the numbers a bit adding maybe…

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