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Son (9) lies with almost no conscience.(r/atheistparents)
You could try How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. There are separate versions for “Little Kids” and “Teens” as well. I’m not sure how old your kids are, but I also liked 1-2-3 Magic for my son it really helped. Good luck!