's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy

It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy


Ugh. Another ‘doesn’t want relationship’ boyfriend.
There’s no doubt about it—breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It’s called a breakup because it’s broken, and starting right here, right now, it’s time to dry your tears, put down that pint of ice cream, log out of his e-mail, and open this book to Chapter One–and start turning your breakup into a breako…

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Ugh. Another ‘doesn’t want relationship’ boyfriend.(r/TwoXChromosomes)

This man is giving you a GIFT, take it and RUN. The gift is that he is telling you he is not up for the situation you want. It’s still early, move on. I have found that one of the fallacies of our beliefs about relationships is that people expect break-ups from shorter relationships to hurt less. This is not necessarily the case. But these break-ups do hurt for less time. You get the same crap feelings, but you only need to power through it for a brief period. Now is the time to do the math – the longer you stay with the guy the longer you will feel like crap when you break-up, which he just told you is what is going to happen. So, my lady buddy, what are you going to do?

On the way home from not letting the door of his apartment hit you on the bum on your way out, I recommend picking up a copy of It’s Called a Break-Up Because It’s Broken, which I found to be a super help all three times I broke up with Mr. Just-Not-Ready-For-A-Relationship-But-I-Loved-Courting-You. While you’re at it, if you have a pattern of this…

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