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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty

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My MIL just showed up on my three week long business/vacation/escape with my DH. Advice needed.
The best-seller that helps you say: “I just said ‘no’ and I don’t feel guilty!”  Are you letting your kids get away with murder?  Are you allowing your mother-in-law to impose her will on you?  Are you embarrassed by praise or crushed by criticism?  Are you having trouble coping with people?  Learn the answers in When I Say No, I Feel Guilty,  the best-seller with revolutionary new techniques for getting your own way.From the Paperback edition.

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My MIL just showed up on my three week long business/vacation/escape with my DH. Advice needed.(r/JUSTNOMIL)

This is directed at DH, but it has to do with what his mother has done to him. You can’t change her; you can help your spouse see the light and begin to heal the damage MIL has done. To him, to you and to your marriage.

Deep breath: Next step is DH calling her to say “NO, my wife doesn’t need to talk, or listen to you for one second. I chose MY WIFE long before I proposed. She is the adult with whom I’m sharing my life. I’m your adult son. With a life of his own. I’m not your emotional husband. YOU are a grownup. You are responsible for your own feelings. WE need for you to BACK OFF and stop interfering in our marriage and our lives. This is me talking; my wife isn’t manipulating me – YOU have been. It’s over. Leave us alone. When and if WE are ready to communicate, we’ll contact you. WE ARE A PACKAGE DEAL. If you want a relationship, you start by doing what we’re requesting. If you want to never see us again keep trying to interfere.”

Then he hangs up and follows up with the same thing…

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$2.99

Book Binding

Mass Market Paperback

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ABIS_EBOOKS

Book Author

Manuel J. Smith

Book Edition

Reissue

Book Publisher

Bantam

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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty

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